Dr Ruth Jayne Battersea

wow! wow! WOW!!! you are amazing

I cried with laughter at this and nearly fell off the cross trainer I was on whilst watching! Alan Carr is such a wonderful host and he really gets the best side out of all his guests. I love it when Gaga goes on Chatty Man :)

awesome outfit! i love the leather body harnesses Gaga wears in 'You and I' and 'the Edge of Glory'

Ive never seen anyone protest like this at a gig in the UK. I think if I saw someone protesting I would have to approach them and tell them what I thought of their protest; utter shite! (In Birmingham we say shit with an 'e', its an accent thing!!! lol!!)

Throughout life there are times when you have a best friend, times when you have a group of great friends and times when you are left entirely on your own. I used to hate being on my own. I used to think it meant there was something wrong with me. I used to think there was no future. Its seems like there is no way out at the time but I can assure you 100% you CAN get through it. What you need to do is become your own best friend. What do YOU love, what things do YOU like to do. Set goals, things you want to try and achieve and start focusing your energy on building you and spending time enjoying being you. You dont need someone else to do all these things. There is so much out there for you to enjoy, grab it whilst you are young dont let it pass you by. take care

Focus on the things you enjoy, are there any clubs or activities that you could get involved in where you can meet like minded people? Its tough to be outgoing when you are sad, its hard for you to be yourself and for your true personality to shine through. People who hate have far less room in their hearts for love. They are losers. Keep being yourself. Dont change. Look at yourself and acknowledge the things that make you awesome and then make a plan to try something new youve always wanted to do. Use your energy on yourself not worrying about what others think. The older you get, the easier it gets to leave the negative people behind.

I have looked after people who have self-harmed and when I was younger I too used to hurt myself. I hurt myself for a number of reasons. People have quite different reasons for doing it. Your school or your family doctor should have access to a councillor, someone you can talk to, its easier than talking to friends and family because you wont get worried about upsetting people by telling them the truth. You need to talk about WHY you do it before you can move past it. And you CAN stop it, it might be hard to see that right now but there will come a time when you realise you don't need to do it. For me it was when I learned not to hate myself anymore. Getting help is not a sign of weakness its a sign that you want to tackle the problem in the best way. Take care

I like leather, I don't feel bad about that