Any of those 2 can be true and anything in between, depending on the person. An introvert will feel more like in the second statement, while an extrovert will be more reckless. But one must know that everything has consequences. The better the teenage life, the worse can the future be due to ignoring school for example.
HUm...of course I have in my life some things of "reality" but...I think I have almost all the things that you put in "expectations". =S I wish you the same soon.
Well i have to say everything is in our hands , we can do anything if we want we can born our dreams our burying them , If we decide to born them then we have to change the way we thought change every stupid thing we have done and keep learning from everybody even from a kid , keep moving on & never give up , but we want to burying them it's easy set down cry for what you don't have , try asking why we never get success ...!!!!