LIfe continues to evolve and grow! I love you for being brave enough to post. It will get easier.

you need a plan and that plan starts with you getting an education and a job in a high paying field that you desire, then folks will have the respect you deserve to approach them on the subject of you being gay...*Good luck/Hugs*

be proud baby, you are who you are and nobody can ever stop you <3

If you want come talk to mee [[lm.heart]]

Huny just be who you are and the people who truly love you will stay and for those that leave, screw them if they can't except you. Being true to yourself is more important than keeping fake friends :)

I was thinking these thoughts (and worse things) about two years ago. Believe me it's amazing how far I've come and how much potential you have once you take a brave step and open the door. It's so true when they say "It gets better" <3

omg, the same problem! although I know that one my best friend knows that I'm gay) at least he's 90% sure, but as I didn't come out to him, he can't be 100% sure. It's hard to lead a double life, but I just don't care. of course it would be easier if everyone knew and accepted it, but still i don't care that much. you should find some strength inside. and you are sure to meet a guy who will be your best guy in the world. just don't give up) we are strong, and brave, and free_

Well... If you don't want to tell it to anyone don't do it? What's the big deal...?

If you're not YOU around them, then you've already lost them. Until they know the real you, then you can't know of their love. The only thing to do is show them who you really are, and go from there. You're not going to lose anything by telling them, but you are going to lose something if you don't.

lol same

i have the exact same problem and i've been so miserable this past too years feeling lonlier than ever and i just have had enough but i can't tell anybody that i'm gay it would ruin my life QQ

think of one of your friends/family who your trust the most, and you think he would be always on your side, no matter what! If you find that person, you can talk with him/her, about that, it's always good to have a person to talk to! (If you want you can also talk to me about that...my heart is wide open to help everyone) But remember! It's not about coming out, but that you love yourself the way you truly are! You don't have to make everything at the same time! Wait on, maybe the things will change, and you will get curage to tell your parents etc....don't get in a hurry, wait and see what happens! wish you all the best <3

When I came out (even though I'm not fully out yet) I told a friend. You have to tell a person that you completely trust. They will help you tell other people. Having good friends are a wonderful thing to have when you are going through this. After you get comfortable with your friends, move on to family. I went through the same thing, and it's not worth suffering through. You just have to be brave and do it. Good luck [[lm.btwboy]] [[lm.btwgirl]] [[lm.pawsup]]

I had exactly the same fears :3 Dont pressure yourself but when you feel ready its often easiest to tell one person you really trust first. You will be surprised how understanding people are, I was :-) Hope all goes well :-)