At one point in the film Crimes and Misdemeanors, the character played by Woody Allen says: "We are the sum of our decisions." This phrase settled back in my head and never left there. I share the skepticism Allen: we are what we choose to be, fate has little to do with it. From small learned that when making a choice, we are discarding another option and option in this web we weave what is called "my life". No easy task. The moment you choose to be a doctor, you're giving up to be an airplane pilot. By opting for life as an actress, will be almost impossible to reconcile with the architecture. In love, the same thing: dating is one, another, and another, an exciting puzzle novels. Until there comes a time when one must decide between spending the rest of my life without formal commitment with someone, just loves experiencing and letting them go when they cease, or married, and through marriage found a microenterprise, with the right home own, household budget and responsibilities. Both options have their pros and cons: live and live with no ties ties ... Choose: drink till you drop or turn vegetarian and Buddhist? All alternatives are valid, but there is a price to pay for them. I wish we could be a different person every 6 months, they were married Monday to Friday and singles weekends, have children when you are well-prepared and not have them when tired. Why is this so important self-knowledge. Therefore it is necessary to read a lot, listen to others, internships in various tribes, pay attention to what's going on and do not cultivate prejudices. Our choices may not only be intuitive, they have to reflect what we are. Logical that decisions should reevaluate and change the way: Nobody is the same forever. But these route changes will add to, not to negate the experience of the path previously traveled. The road is long and time is short. Be sure to do anything you want, but be responsible and mature enough to bear the consequences of these actions. Remember, your choices have a 50% chance to go right, but also a 50% chance of going wrong. The choice is yours!