so, im a 14 year old boy and i think im bi. I know i like guys for sure! but im not so sure about girls... i want to come out, but i dont know what to come out as. #LGBT #Gay #Bi
Don't label yourself! I'm bisexual I have been sexually with both boys and girls, but then some days I feel I prefer boys, and others girls, you don't need to come out if you don't feel ready, it's 2014! Be whoever you want to be!!
I was so scared, when I first knew that I'm gay. It was a very hard time, but trust me, after my coming out it was much easier. A coming out is not easy, I know, but hny you'll feel free & very brave after you did it ♥ be yourself and let nobody tear you down hny ♥ xoxo
Wait. I think that before you do come out you should know what you are for sure an there is no rush! I'm 14 years old aswell and bi, I'm a girl and havnt come out yet. Take some time for yourself. Figure things out. Dm me if you need :) I'm glad to help
This is the bad thing about coming out. I think we just have to be ourselves without labels, because there isn't only straight/bi/gay but a lot of shades between them. Maybe you like guys more than girls, it doesn't matter that much..
A way to find out if you like girls as well is to ask yourself some questions. Can you imagine yourself being happy with a girl? Will you be comfortable when you guys touch each other (in a sexual way)? Will you feel comfortable kissing her and holding her in your arms? If you answered yes to any of the questions then you might be interested in girls. I hope this helps little monster, and good luck on coming out :)<3
im not saying this is true for everyone but in most cases ive seen being bi usually just leads to being full out gay buy hey thats for u to find out in the future the important thing is wat ever u choose u can be assured the monster community will support u
Well for me I always liked guys from the beginning of it and I came out at 11 which was like 5 years ago. But my advice is when you feel ready that's when you come out and be fabulous dawling! ;)
Don't worry. You don't need to 'come out' as anything or make your mind up yet. Just feel free and live life, date whoever you like in that time whether they be a boy or girl and you'll get to know yourself in a few years
try to think who you have feelings for more. Think about who youd like to marry and live the rest of youre lifd with thats how i found out!!! *monster hugs* :)
im coming out to my parents tomarrow and hey im 14 too :) but im really scared i found a girl that i really love and i thought it was time to come out im vary vary vary scared but i know its worth it you can come out whenever you want im shure youre parents will accept you :)
Only come out when you are ready. I wouldn't advise you to come out as either "gay" or "bi," considering that you said you are not so sure about girls. Perhaps you could come out to a very close, trusting friend in a different way-- tell him or her about how you feel and that you are not so sure yet. Talking to a friend really does help.
From personal experience, it's okay not to be so sure. Only time and experience will tell. It took me awhile to accept that I was gay and not bi. Take it from me, don't ever try to convince or force yourself to think you are a certain sexuality. I tried to convince myself that I liked both girls and boys, but really, it was a painful experience, since I was forcing myself to like things that really didn't bring me happiness.
When I was your age I was so confused because I liked boys, but just to have sex and I liked girls to have a relationship... Then I started to prefer boys for a relationship but not for sex... I was very confused because I also liked girls but not too much... I remember that I used to say that I was Bi because I was affraid to be gay and I tought that beeing bi was more acceptable than beeing gay. But finally I discovered and also kind of decided to be gay... What I mean is that you are very young and you may be confused, so just wait until you feel sure of your sexual orientation before you come out. Take it easy and try with some girls and boys (but not in a negative way) so you can put your toughts and feelings in order