thanks for all the advice everyone, i really needed these opinions

I use to date guys when I was younger. Then I fell inlove with a girl. The sex was amazing way better that sleeping with a guy so much passion, and now I'm gay. So yeah it does take time. You may fall for a guy or a girl. But the best part about having a girlfriend is she's is with you all the time :)

Hi, I feel you am a guy and I still don't know if am gay or straight or even bi, I don't know am just letting time solve this one out. :/

I'm bi & willing to help :)

Figuring out your identity is difficult. Being bi or pansexual is tricky sometimes because we live in a heteronormative society that erases queer people's stories, so we rarely hear about them. Especially people who are identifying as bi or pan are often described/perceived as (or rather rudely asked to identify as) /either/ straight /or/ homosexual, when really that doesn't express the reality of their desire/romantic feelings. Bi/pan individuals therefore might not realise that they're queer or ignore their queer desire/romantic feelings, because everyone simply assumes they're straight or they're made to feel bad about being queer and therefore resolve to dating only hetero men or women ("the opposite gender"). You may also keep your head down and only look within certain circles/look for sexual/romantic partners of a certain gender, ignoring your queer desire and, again, not realising you're bi or possibly shying away from identifying as bi due to prejudice/a fear of coming out ... In the end it's up to you and what you feel, no one can take your identity from you, no matter what you choose to identify as.

I was straight, the I realize that i'm bisexual, then I was more lesbian now i'm more straight. My mind changes everytime. So if you like a boy as you like a girl, you're bisexual.

Gurlllll!!!! I be going thru the same thing...talk to me whenever you need, im very bisexual, but i often try to change that, you are perfect the way you are. We can talk about that when you need <3 <3 messge me when you have time

Honestly Carrie It would most likely be best if you identify yourself as "Carrie." Please do not feel as though you must fit into a category of "gay, straight, bi, etc..." You like what YOU like and there is nothing wrong with that. I personally like both men and women. I am engaged to a women and will hopefully grow old with her. That said, we both still find men attractive. Society likes to put people into buckets. My advice. Love the PERSON not the sex. Men and Women are attractive, but it is the deeper part of the person that is the real turn on. I hope this helps! Just be you!

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Send me a message if u want ❤️

im here if you wanna talk!!! when i felt confused it was really hard but i got through it and now im out and a proud bisexual. i totally understand what you are going through. paws up!!!

I think love doesnt have to fix into a box (no pun intended) I'm engaged to a man but I still consider myself bisexual. And the difference between bi curious and bisexuality is the ability to know what you like/what makes you feel happy, and get it!

ask away :)

i'm bi. what are your questions?