Amen, I am in a true relationship with her too, fuck all the stupid shit that people feel the need to write about performances, and videos, get a fucking life people and just enjoy this glimmer of hope (gaga) while shes on this planet with us at the same time! We are so lucky to be able to appreciate her, stop criticizing her, shes an advocate for change and being healthy and loving yourself, last night she was sending a message, don't over scrutinize shit.