You know i went through your profile you have a very beautiful face and body that almost anyone would immediately love . If you are not comfortable or wanna work upon it then good but please dont do it just because of some mom bullying. For me you are amazing <3
I would cross the seven seas to find a woman with a body like that. I think you are just right, not over weight and not under weight. if you want to lose a couple of pounds then do it, but i see no reason =)