I’m 20 years old, completely flatchested, lesbian, and gender queer. I have several fibroadenomas that I need to have removed. My mom has been offering to get me implants since I was like 12. (It’s really fucked up..) but I really don’t want them. My insurance would pay for any reconstruction that I need, including top surgery. I don’t know what to do. I’ve always hated the way my chest looks because even though I’m flatchested, I don’t look masculine. I feel like I look like a child. And I hate that. So much. I’d rather have implants than to look like I do now, but I’d much rather have top surgery, but I know my parents won’t understand.. I can’t find any info online that’s for nonbinary people or situation similar to this.. I just don’t know what to do..