My Dad worked 80-100hr weeks when I was growing up, but was home for dinner every night and made time to spend with my brother and I and to take my mom on dates. After we went to bed he went back to work, sometimes until 2 or 3 am, only getting a few hours of sleep before his next meeting or project. now that my brother and I are out of the house, he makes every night a date with my mom whether its going to the theater for a play or watching TV while cuddling and drinking wine and this year will be taking her to Rome for their 25th anniversary...and I still hang out with him at least once a week. Basically he's the most amazing man alive and I know he's the exception, but every husband and father should strive to be even half as great as him.