I have thought about this a lot. Being a gay man myself it has always made no sense to me that when two girls say your sexy, or kiss...they are just "messing around", but two guys say your sexy to each other, or GOD FORBID KISS they are labeled gay for the rest of their life. I guess that is just the way our society has taught us to act, and to think ! Macho VS Feminine and gender roles are a touchy subject, but I will say this...If I had a child boy or girl I would let them play with the toys they wanted, and let them be who they wanted to be. When I was a kid I played with Barbies with my female cousin, but also played video games and with Ninja Turtles and G.I. Joe toys with friends and other cousins. I just wish our culture wasn't so focused on this MACHO and FEMININE BULLSH*T !!!