simba32’s post

Hi .. instead of posting pictures of myself for the body revolution .. something i could never do i thought i would explain it to you !! please monsters read it would mean the worl to me :)

HI .. im just explaning how i feel about myself and body .. well when i was younger i was made fun of like some names like fat, you look like a whale, bush brow, he she nd others .. this hurt me and now because of years of bullying people made me feel worse abut myself. little monsters i think i am fat and ulgy and honestly i dont ever think anything or anyone can change my thoughts .. everytime i look in the mirror i think why cant i be skinny why cant i just be pretty like all my friends why .. i still think this way sometimes i wish i was dead i think it would be better like i wont have to think or care what people will think of me if i was gone. if i was gone people would not care at all thats it .. and well im very uncomfortable with my body and i aboustlety hate it i have strech marks on my sides tummy and legs and back .. this just makes me feel wores about it.. and my face i hate it to and honestly i even hate my voice .. thats all i really have to say i hope u guys read it :p

Sarah H@sarahh27 13y

I understand where you're coming from - I'm in the same place. And can I just say to everyone who says "don't think negative stuff about yourself and so on" - that's fine in theory, but when you have heard over and over again that you are fat and ugly it's hard not to think that about yourself. You have to slowly try to change the way you think. I don;t think you're gonna wake up one morning and go "oh, I love me" just out of the blue. You have to slowly try to stop the negative thoughts, and don't surround yourself with people who put you down (which can be difficult especially if you are at school).

Retrodancefreak@retromonsterfreak 13y

remember rule number one, NEVER, NEVR THINK NEGATIVE OF YOURSELF! everybody will think that you're insecure, ugly etc. you were born this way and there are people who love you for sure and don't care about your body. if you have problems with your weight, then do something about it. don't stay and look around.I have faith in you. I'm thin but I have strechmarks on my body too. my dad had problems with weight too, and later with his heart. he decided to live healthier. he lost 20 kg in 2 months. know that your body is beautiful. everything is possible to do when you want it to.

Tatiana Sanchiz@tatianasanchiz 13y

The first thing you have to do is accept yourself. God made you perfect. Everyone thinks about changing something about themselves, but you know what .. God loves you just the way you are .. and those who don't see you for the person you are, are not worth having around.