filthypopheart’s post

Welcome home, Little Monsters.

monsters, help?

school is starting next week for me, and i'm going to be a senior this year... the thing is, i really don't want to go back to school. i don't really want to deal with some of the people in my grade. i'm not popular or anything, but there are these girls who are mean & they did some things that hurt me last year, & i just don't want to go back to that... on top of that, college applications will be starting, and i don't even know what i want to do with my life. i feel like everyone around me are secure w/ their future and they know what they want, but i really don't know... i feel stuck. i've been feeling stuck for a while now actually... mpphhh.... *sigh*

Angel@orion 13y

Listen to your heart! And be brave...And remember that when your school ends you'll never see those girls again! And about college, try to imagine yourself after 20 years...what can you see? I hope you'll be lucky in your life! :-* :D

lavenderultra@filthypopheart 13y

thank you monsters. paws up.

xxHannahxx0@xxhannahxx0 13y

Honey, don't let those girls get to you. If you can't seem to ignore them, then there are always adults around that can help you. I don't pay any attention to people who mess around with others so just stay strong. Also, you don't have to rush yourself too much when it comes to deciding on what you want to do in college. Everything takes time so just be a little patient and soon, you might find what you want to do. (: Stay strong Ida. Your fellow monsters will always help one another. (: <3 (''')

Sarah Carolann McCleskey@sarahmccleskey1 13y

Ida, first, don't push yourself. I know when I was in undergrad and grad school. I sounded lke you. Am I making the right choices, limited admission in my field,money, you name it. So I do, in a way, how you must feel. No one really knows how the other person feels. I can't get into your brain and won't try. However, give yourself some space. Can you afford to set out a semester for undergrad? If not, there are always required university requirements for all degree plans. Take them. Don't let a counselor push you. Just say undetermined for now. When you have more time to look into various careers, then declare your plan to counselor. Are you depressed? I'm not your psychiatrist nor am I labeling you. A lot of people are depressed and really don't know it yet. Again, you sound too hard on yourselves, like you judge others as secure when I know that each person has some concerns. Think on it and really search your soul. What would make me happy everyday? You can always change major later. Let me know how you are. I care about you. Take care, stay safe. Hugs! :)))))

Michaiah Halley@cello2glamour 13y

I will be honest with you I don't know how you feel. Bc I have never really felt that way. But here's a bit of advice If you don't love yourself how can expect others to love you. It seems harsh at first but if you love yourself for who you are other people will follow suit. And the mean people in the world simply will become insignificant to you. College isn't for everyone, if you are a girly girl look at estatition school, cosmotology school, make up acadamy's. College doesn't guarentee a career. Find somthing you enjoy , like a hobby, that will help you find your life compass, and what direction you want to take in your life. hope that helps. paws up!