jennalovesgaga’s post

I don't know who i am.

so, some people know exactly what they like to wear and they're edgy, or they play sports, or have some special talent, but i have none of that. I wear really plain clothes because I've never really been confident enough to wear flashy, unique clothing. and even when i attempt to wear something unique i don't feel myself in it. I live in a rural/suburb type area so i feel really condensed in this small Minnesota town, I don't have many friends, the only true friends I can think of are my boyfriend & and a couple of cousins. I don't play any sports because for the longest time ever since I was little, i've been intimidated by competing with other girls in my school and because I'm not a confident person. I really don't have any stand out talents like some other people do. I'm an ok singer, drawer, and I excel in school but really doing well in school isn't a talent. The only word that defines me is Little Monster, but no one really understands that:/ Monsters do you have any advice for me?

Melanie Holmes@melanieholmes 13y

Same here girl, it's been an issue my whole life (I'm now 30) and although I've come along way in some aspects of my life, I still feel like I'm a pale shadow of a person. Gaga sure inspires me, but I also feel a wistfulness when I watch her and others live so ferociously. You're not alone girl!

Sarah Carolann McCleskey@sarahmccleskey1 13y

You do posess a much needed talent, doing well in school. There is never anything as important than an intelligent, educated mind. Of course you are still young have many ideas of what about this, enough self-confidence, etc. I still suffer from self-confidence issues. I work everyday to find something that I did positive for myself or others. Littlemonsters has given me the hope and strength to continue to spread my wings to do more for a braver, kinder world that accepts the individual fot the born this way concept. I feel that I have found something that will make a change for the betterment of mankind. It's awesome challenge when I could just be self absorbed for me, stagnate, etc. Lady Gaga is what has caused a change in me. You will do great things too. I really appreciate your bravery in sharing intimate thoughts and feelings. Jenna, great discussion. Take care, stay safe. Write us some more when you feel like it. I really enjoyed your own words, very touching to my soul.

Sleepflower@lipsticktrace 13y

I'm exactly the same as you hun. I'm in the UK. I'm 24. I have no friends. I live with my boyfriend and all I do is work, sleep and spend time with him. I have no hobbies, I'm awful at sport, I used to wear unique clothing but I threw it all away now I wear my uniform at work and my pyjamas at home! Very depressing. I need to find something I enjoy or am good at but can't find the motivation...!!!

Danial Qadir@daimgermanotta 13y

I've been there... Well, all I can say is, EH EH! No, I'm just kidding x3 Just keep looking for yourself, you'll find the real You when the time comes! Until then, just be patient And use your knowledge. ^_^ I know It's easier said than Done, but just keep going! And, always remember, that You were Born This Way (''') <3

littlemonster4lifex@iceaslan 13y

ive been through that before hun and ill tell you some thing you sound like such an amazing girl and doing well in school is a talent in my eyes because so many of the girls around me that have bullied pushed and teased me are all crumbiling in school and there not exceling but this is something your going to have to trust me on ok but i promise your time to shine is closer than you think and you do have alot of friends you have friends on here and id love to be one you sound as thpugh your going what i went through so any problems just message me or comment on my page straight away ok xxxx

Lauren Romano@theatermonster 13y

I know how you feel fellow monster... it's easy to get lost in the crowd and feel like you're just simple and plain. But I do not believe you are that. Monsters are never plain. I'll bet you have beautiful things going through your head all the time. Take pride in the fact that you're not like everyone else. If you need a friend or just someone to talk to, I always here for chat :)

Dear Fellow Monsters,

Rickie Nicks@myheart10 13y

I don't know about advice but I do know how you feel. Just know that you are not alone.