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A weird situation...
A weird situation...
Hi Little Monsters! How are you? π€
Sorry if it's been a while since I was active, I was enjoying my vacation. It was really cool in the south of France...It made me feel good to swim, sunbathe, drink smoothies and have a good time with my parents and my friends. Then my aunt and my cousin came to my house and we were able to do lots of different activities, it was great and I can't wait to see them again! π
Right now I'm drawing, I'm editing videos (by the way, I'll share it with you very soon, I can't wait), I play video games and watch series.
Only even if today I feel very happy and much more confident since I spoke to you...Something weird happened this afternoon and I think it's important that I share my experience for can to help some people but also to feel less anxious about it and maybe some people give me advice...In fact today, my friend and I went on an outing...And at some point we decided to go eat an ice cream at the mall. Everything was going well until we made the return by bus to go to the media library to discuss. We had sat towards places at the back of the bus and 3 boys sat next to us... At the beginning, nothing too weird, they had the right to settle down wherever they want... Only when my friend and I were about to get off the bus one of them (I don't know how old he was but he was already much older than me, maybe around 18) told me that I was pretty. Even though I felt quite uncomfortable with what he had told me, I still decided to thank him out of politeness. Then he asked me how old I was and I replied that I was 14 years old. One of his friends told him that it wasn't very good to approach me like that but it didn't bother him... Then he told me that I looked older than my age... But luckily the bus had stopped so I was able to hurry to get off, so he couldn't continue to ask me questions or other...Fortunately I was with my friend so I wasn't not alone but this situation was so uncomfortable for me. I had a hard time realizing what had just happened and I didn't really know how to take it...I was just confused...I was chewing my words, I had a hard time talking about what had happened... We discussed it a bit with my friend and she expressed her support to me and I am extremely grateful to her. Even if I had confidence in myself at the moment, this situation had completely destabilized me, it was the first time that this kind of thing had happened to me... To the point that I wonder if I had not been wrong to answer him and if I hadn't done something wrong...I pulled myself together and knew that in no way was it my fault that I had experienced this and it doesn't matter who is experiencing this kind of thing is not faulty... But it's true that I still felt that it was important that I talk about it.
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