I am a 17 year old guy and I want to ask another 17 year old guy out, he goes to the same school as me and i'm not sure if he is gay, I am afraid that if I ask him he will say no and tell everyone, when i'm not really comfortable to let a lot of people know right now that i'm bi sexual. This Saturday no one is home (but me) and i want to invite him over so i can have a talk with him. what do you think i should do?