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† Pamela Chlebowska †
† Pamela Chlebowska † @ladypamela

Sometimes I feel badly

Hello dear Little Monsters! I'm new here. I'd like to tell you about my problem. I'm Lady Gaga's big fan. I love her message - that we were born this way, we are amazing just the way we are, we are beautiful in our way... I started to feel better, I started to feel more self- confident and brave. But there are some moments in my life when I feel really badly - I think I'm ugly, fat, in general - I feel like shit. Do you feel the same? How do you deal with this problem?
Alfredo@alfrejj
Alfredo
Sometimes..
Omar@wompthatslut
Omar
if youre going through hell... keep going. eventually youll make it out.
Debs | Gaga@bornthisway901
Debs | Gaga
i know how you feel at times im much better than what i was but i do have my off day's like everybody eles i sometimes just imagain Gaga tellling me not too let them get too me. etc
† Pamela Chlebowska †@ladypamela
† Pamela Chlebowska †
Maybe you're right. It's sometimes hard to deal with people comments. They think they are trying to help you but it's worse. I agree we shouldn't focus so much on what people say and think about us but it's sometimes hard to do it. We should be more self-confident and feel more compassion to us. I know we are just people, not heroes. And I agree that good, honest people deserve for friends who love them just for who they are :) So, we are the best and just fuck the rest :)
JeffA@allenbotnick
JeffA
I think a lot of it has to do with being nice to yourself despite what others think. A lot of what people get criticized for is for things that are beyond their control so it doesn't make any sense to focus on it. In a weird way I think a lot of people just bully people because they were parented that way-that's the way they relate to others. So they can actually be trying to help someone, say to lose weight, by bullying them instead of kindly discussing it with them. But the problem is that there is no easy or even reliable way to keep weight off so the problem never goes away. For most external things it is just plain rude to bully others. Make friends with others who accept you for who you are and the others won't bother you so much. LGG was thrown into a trashcan in school by bullies.