warmwarmerdisco’s post

Coming out,

it's easy for some but in my case, not at all. I've only told a handful of people. I told some good friends of mine from school at a party a couple weeks ago, and they were so accepting. I haven't told my family, or my best friend though. Mom is accepting with the matter, I just haven't admitted anything yet. I think she just.. assumes I like women. My step dad on the other hand is.. old fashioned. He's racist, homophobic, and very judgmental. He already makes fun of me sometimes, I'm afraid if I tell him I'm Bisexual, the jokes will keep rolling in. And I don't need anymore stress in my life.. I have enough on my plate. i HATE when someone calls something gay when they mean it's bad. Also, my best friend.. I've tried telling her... but she ends up making lesbian jokes.. so I act like I was kidding around so things will go back to normal. I want to happy, that's the real problem. But coming out to the most important people in my life will cause chaos. What should I do Monsters? :|

Emma B.@edance13 13y

ALMOST EXACT SAME SITUATION. I hear ya, girl...I hear ya. <3 Message me if you need help, dear. I'll do all I can!!

Lui Moreno@luis0209 13y

one day you'll look back and laugh about this, don't worry let things go naturally you don't have to tell EVERYTHING to your mom and your stepdad is a douch*. it all gets better, don't you worry

dominic mc caw@amnesia1 13y

.my best friend does the same.Do what your doing and im sure that if shes really as good of a friend as you think then she will accept you no matter what.Coming out to my dad was easier than telling everyone else but he said that i should be myself and not let anyone stop me from being who i am. Paws up and dont let anyone tell you that you cant be who you are

Marianne@misslaamaa 13y

I've only told 2 people so far, so I'm not rlly the best person to help you ^^

David Serrano@wonderlust 13y

Coming out was tough, initially too, but you've come out to a select few already. Let this group of people be your support group. Tell them how you feel, and what your plans are as it pertains to coming out. Trust me, you will need them immediately after you come out to your loved ones. Regardless of whether your loves ones end up excepting your or not, you will know they're there for you. I did, at least. Just remember to be strong, own whatever it is that you are, and keep moving forward. People will say stupid things, but that's life. Everyone has to deal with it. When it comes down to it, your life is about your happiness. Much love and support. :)

Josiah Sumajji@josiahsumajji 13y

Keeping it in will cause worse chaos. Just come out. Living a lie is a horrible life.

Cheney Marie Maldonado@cheneymariemonster 13y

Don't engage in any kind of argument should they not take it well at first. Sometimes, people need time. Good luck, Little Monster <3

Alejandro Del Rey@alealejandro 13y

If your mom is accepting, then tell her! As for your STEP dad, who gives a fuck! He isn't your biological dad, so it's not like he can "disown" you or anything, and if he says or does anything bad, your mom should stick up and defend you! Your friend though... just tell her to be serious when she starts making the jokes. Tell her it's important for you!